Your looks? Ridiculous. Your style? Last season. Your legs? Always open. – Unknown
One afternoon I was riding in the car with a friend of mine when a certain female of “loose morals” came up in conversation. I’m not going to go into too much detail but the conversation went something like this:
Him: “So what’s up with (We’ll call her Carmen) Carmen?
Me: “What do you mean?”
Him: “Who’s she f***ing now? Doesn’t she have a boyfriend or something?”
Me: “Yeah, something like that. Doesn’t matter though, I’m pretty sure she’s cheating on him.”
Him: “I don’t know how any dude can mess with that, she looks so dirty most of the time. Her p***y HAS to stink.”
Me: “Yeah she really doesn’t keep herself up, but she’s pretty and has big breasts and a small waist. Some dudes overlook things like a stink p***y. LOL
Him: “Dude, I wouldn’t touch that with a ten foot pole. I wouldn’t f**k her with your d**k. LOL
Me: “You’re such an ass. I don’t know man, I guess a slut is a slut. I mean she’s can be a nice person when she wants to be but she’s still a slut.”
Him: “……..Nah, she’s not a slut…….”
If this were a scene in a movie, him saying she’s not a slut would have been the part where the record scratched and everyone in the vicinity of a mile would have suddenly looked at him in shock, just like I did.
Me: “She’s not?”
Him: “Nope, she’s not a slut; d**k is just her comfort food. LOL”
Even though he was being a total ass, what he said had some truth to it, misguided truth, but truth nonetheless. The word slut is defined as, “a dirty slatternly woman, or a woman who is sexually promiscuous”. Even though different meanings have been applied to the word since as early as the 1400’s, it generally applies to a woman who sleeps around. Please don’t get me wrong, I’m not referring to a woman who enjoys good sex on a regular basis. I’m referring to an individual that has no moral compass and would sleep with anyone by just looking at them the right way. It’s deeper than that in my opinion though. I think a lot of women are just in need of some attention, and the only way they think they can get it is to sacrifice their bodies and their dignity. They crazy thing is these men that take advantage of them are put on a pedestal, when they are slut themselves who don’t know how to truly appreciate a woman for what she’s really worth.
Some women suffer have low self-esteem that may stem from various influences ranging from their upbringing, living environment, peers, etc. Some women get over their low self-esteem by turning into cranky angry bitches, often talking down to others just to make themselves feel better, other turn to food for comfort, while others try to garner affection by allowing themselves to be used and abused.
Is it fair to call them sluts? I’m not talking about whores on the street here. They sell their bodies for money, those are genuine sluts. I’m talking about women who are obviously missing something and are going about trying to get it in all the wrong ways. Is it really fair to refer to them in such a derogatory way? These women are obviously misguided, searching for affection in all the wrong places.
Oh man I’m going to get so much heat for this post, but I’m interested in your opinion on the topic if you have one and would like to share.