Desperation? That can be a justification for all kinds of behavior. -Jessica Walter
Earlier this week I wrote a post stemming from a conversation that I’d had with a friend of mine that made for very interesting “BlogFodder”(hats off to @ladyestrogen for the term). Well thanks to my best friend of over 10 years, I’m please to share with you another of our random yet inspiring conversations.
As it goes, I was home last night doing a bit of gaming before heading to bed when I heard the familiar light-saber chime (yeah, I’m a loser) that indicated I had received a text message from my friend Horace. Upon opening the message I saw that it was a picture of a woman, (which it often is) that I’d never met.
Now before I continue let me share some things with you that may make things a little easier to understand. A few years ago Horace met a woman who’s name I won’t reveal even though she was a total bitch, dated her for a few months and after what seemed like true love decided to marry her. A few short years after that things went south and they inevitably got divorced. Since then he’s been truly relishing the single life and taking the opportunity to meet as many women as he can through Craigslist or dating sites such as Plenty of Fish. So getting a picture of a random new woman is nothing out of the ordinary. Let’s continue.
ME: Who’s this?
Horace: Some chick I just started talking to from POF.
ME: Oh ok. She’s actually kinda cute. How long have you been talking to her?
Keep in mind that I’m writing this post on Friday or the same week.
(Another picture comes through, this time it’s a closer picture of her in what I just now realized was her bra taken of herself in with her cell phone in the bathroom )
ME: She’s really cute. Except for that mole smack dab in the middle of her face, but yeah, thumbs up.
Horace: Yeah, that mole. LMAO. I’m going to need her to stop sending me pics though.
(In comes another picture of her, no bra this time. The picture stops right above where her nipples would be and it looks like she may be in the shower.)
ME: Um…Well… I still don’t see the problem here. Obviously she wants you to destroy her.
Horace: Especially with that last pic.
ME: Again, not seeing the problem.
Horace: Me either.
ME: You’re the one that said you wanted her to stop sending you pics!
Horace: Not so many of them.
(Yet another picture comes through, this time you can clearly see her breast and she’s dripping wet and obviously in the shower)
ME: Yeah dude, she really wants to get it. Did you ask her for nudes?
Who sends unsolicited nudes to a guy that she’s only talked to for 4 days and hasn’t even met? In my opinion that just screams “low self-esteem” or someone who doesn’t give themselves enough credit and is either desperately seeking attention or is in some serious need for some penis action. What I’m confused about it why. I happen to think that this woman is quite pretty and wouldn’t need to be so hard up for some dick. I’m actually curious to meet her and talk to her and find out what her personality is like. Maybe that would shed some light on the amount of question I have running through my head right now.
What do you guys think? Am I wrong for thinking that this woman seems a bit “thirsty”? What reasons would there be for someone to behave in this manner? Do you think they are just inviting themselves to be used? Your thoughts on this matter would be greatly appreciated.
P.S. I wanted to include one of the lovely lady’s pictures so that you can see how cute she is, but decided against it. If you want to see her picture you can DM me and if I deem you trustworthy enough I’ll share it with you privately.